Benjamin Doherty (aka Bangpound) looks for "expression of the conduct and behavior norms of the Drupal community" and "examples of how the community has expressed standards of conduct" and finds a fair amount.
Update: See also Drupal Code of Conduct proposal, http://groups.drupal.org/dcoc
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