I am a member of several Meetup groups and I am also a user of Chandler - http://chandlerproject.com/ - an open source free software personal information manager available for Mac, Linux, and Windows (plus a web version). It is committed to standards of course and I know can accept calendar events in the currently most common format, .ics.
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